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      <title>I have been trying to figure out a term or term that defines my queerness and I...</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[I have been trying to figure out a term or term that defines my queerness and I just can&#39;t find one exactly, and I think thats ok, I have never been one for trying to define ones self into one group.&#xA;&#xA;myqueerlife]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been trying to figure out a term or term that defines my queerness and I just can&#39;t find one exactly, and I think thats ok, I have never been one for trying to define ones self into one group.</p>

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      <title>Finding my new community, this is something that I want so very deeply, but it...</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[Finding my new community, this is something that I want so very deeply, but it is ending up to be harder than I thought. I am not a very outgoing person, not shy, just introverted. I have been trying to follow more queer IG accounts, which is making me feel more like I belong and have connection, but that is only filling a small gap. I have a couple queer &#34;friends&#34;, I put friends in quotes because they are more my partners friends and not mine, but they haven&#39;t been engaging in my coming out. This kinda confirms for me that they just don&#39;t like me, which has really bummed me out, because I liked them. I could go out but my current life is so busy I just don&#39;t have the free time to, but maybe as the temperatures warm up and I am doing more outdoor things that might happen.  🤞&#xA;&#xA;#queer #community #friends]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding my new community, this is something that I want so very deeply, but it is ending up to be harder than I thought. I am not a very outgoing person, not shy, just introverted. I have been trying to follow more queer IG accounts, which is making me feel more like I belong and have connection, but that is only filling a small gap. I have a couple queer “friends”, I put friends in quotes because they are more my partners friends and not mine, but they haven&#39;t been engaging in my coming out. This kinda confirms for me that they just don&#39;t like me, which has really bummed me out, because I liked them. I could go out but my current life is so busy I just don&#39;t have the free time to, but maybe as the temperatures warm up and I am doing more outdoor things that might happen.  🤞</p>

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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2022 19:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[I recently came out as queer on social media (IG), officially, I had for a while indicated that I was queer 🏳️‍🌈 on my profile. I didn&#39;t come out to all my followers, I had created a separate account where I was going to post more private stuff, and I made a couple posts there. I only ended up having a small percentage of my regular followers follow that account, and only one person interacted with me on that post, which made me feel not very supported. I have since deleted that account. I do want to continue writing about this journey, but not so publicly, so here I am.]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently came out as queer on social media (IG), officially, I had for a while indicated that I was queer 🏳️‍🌈 on my profile. I didn&#39;t come out to all my followers, I had created a separate account where I was going to post more private stuff, and I made a couple posts there. I only ended up having a small percentage of my regular followers follow that account, and only one person interacted with me on that post, which made me feel not very supported. I have since deleted that account. I do want to continue writing about this journey, but not so publicly, so here I am.</p>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2022 12:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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